15 Questions to replace “How was School Today?”

The age-old question finally gets an upgrade!

We all know how important it is to ask children what is going on in their lives when they’re away from home for several hours of the day. How many times have you tried to connect with your child in a meaningful way by asking, “How was school today?” and been completely bummed by the lack of response. Let’s face it, an indifferent retort like “Fine” is not the best conversation starter and can leave parents at a loss for words.

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Well, perhaps it’s time to change up the way we question our children and come up with inspiring and thought-provoking ways that can elicit more meaningful responses. To start with, here is a list of 15 engaging questions that parents can ask to expand their conversation.

1. What was the most exciting thing that happened in school today?
2. What was the worst moment at school today?
3. Tell me about the most interesting thing that you learned today.
4. Out of all the things that you learned today, is there anything you want to know more about?
5. What was the proudest moment in class today?
6. Have you ever had moments at school in which you were worried or scared?
7. Tell me the most challenging moment of your day today.
8. Is there anything you are looking forward to tomorrow?
9. What did you appreciate most about your day?
10. Tell me what you think your school would be better with?
11. Is there anything your school would be better without?
12. Is there anyone in the class who demonstrated care for you?
13. Is there someone who you think you could be nicer to?
14. What is the one thing that you learned about yourself today?
15. Is there something you wish that I asked you about your day?

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Remember that how and when you ask these questions may make a big difference. Try not to ask all of these questions on the same day. Be willing to listen to whatever your children have to say as well as what they don’t say.

Did you find these questions useful? Share other questions that you think are useful in bringing out the most conversation between you and your kids.